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The first time Danielle Ezzo met Matt and Rachel, she was relieved. The fashionable trio had met on the dating site, Nerve, and had been exchanging messages, but hadn't yet met in real life. Ezzo, 29, recalls that evening at the Bowery Hotel in spring 2009 fondly: "I was excited that they were just as cute as their profile pictures."
She was even happier to learn that she had that hard to find thing with both Matt and Rachel chemistry. They talked about life and love and learned that they had the same ideas when it came to dating.
"I was really excited to meet people that felt the same way," she says of her ongoing relationship with the married couple, both 34 year old self employed artists,outlet hogan italia, who declined to use their last names because of privacy reasons.
Ezzo, also an artist, is polyamorous. Loosely speaking, she seriously dates more than one person at a time, and has an emotional,air max, as well as a sexual connection, with her partners.
She sees Matt and Rachel separately and together, and also occasionally dates other people.
of the wonderful aspects of polyamory is that you do get different things from different partners, both emotionally and physically, says Ezzo,hogan rebel uomo, who is in what known as a with Matt and Rachel.
are three very different dynamics, all of which are personally valuable. while the arrangement may seem unusual, Ezzo insists it's really no different than run of the mill monogamy. Communication and compromise are key for instance, when it comes to picking a flick to watch for the evening.
"They have very different styles in movies," says Ezzo, who splits her time between New York and Boston, where she is going to school for photography at the Art Institute of Boston. "When I'm with Rachel we might [watch] a silly, fun '80s movie, but I won't do that silly '80s movie with Matt. He likes strange horror flicks."
Luckily, she says, "I like both of those things."
Ezzo is part of a growing movement of people who are practicing consensual non monogamy or,nike tn uk, in plain English, open relationships.
According to Gette Levy of Open Love NY, a local support group with more than 1,000 members, the organization has seen a steady increase in membership since forming in 2009.
"Dating has changed over the past 50 years,womens nike air max," says Levy. "Many adults of all ages are finding that monogamy does not suit them and is no longer a fiscal and social requirement."
Shortly after she started seeing Matt and Rachel, Ezzo met her future husband.
"I had told him [about my lifestyle] on our first date," she says. "He was excited to explore it. open marriage eventually fizzled for reasons not related to polyamory, but her relationship with Matt and Rachel is still going strong.
"I've always inherently had this notion of or had this blurred line between friendship and lovers to me there is a huge overlap. It's easier for me to simultaneously love multiple people," says Ezzo.
"As a bi sexual person,hogan scarpe, choosing is not necessarily something that I personally like to do," she adds.
Pop culture is having a poly moment too: TV shows like "Sister Wives" (Sundays on TLC) and "Polyamory: Married Dating" (Thursdays on Showtime) are giving people a glimpse into the complicated sex lives of multi partnered couples.
"The interest and the visibility around open relationships has just skyrocketed," says sexpert Tristan Taormino, who wrote a book about the subject,nike tn 2014, "Opening Up: A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships."
"We're having these discussions in really mainstream media that just weren't even possible two years ago,outlet hogan italia," adds Taormino, who points out that her book actually sold more copies last year than it did during its 2008 debut.
Open relationships are becoming so common that when singer Robin Thicke gripped Lana Scolaro's barely covered butt at a VMA afterparty at 1OAK last month, his indiscretion reportedly didn't get him into trouble with his actress wife Paula Patton.
"We've done just about everything," Thicke said of his unconventional relationship to Howard Stern in July. Still, he stopped short of saying he and his wife were in an open marriage: "Out of respect for her, we just won't answer that one."
Will and Jada Smith, Mo'Nique,air max 95, Tilda Swinton and even Dolly Parton and her husband have all been rumored to be in open relationships too.
But perhaps the lifestyle's most visible celebrity moment came in January 2012, when Marianne Gingrich told ABC News that her ex husband, the politician Newt Gingrich, had asked for an "open marriage" while having an affair with his soon to be third wife Callista. (Newt Gingrich has given several extensive denials regarding his ex wife's claims.)
It's not just horny men with insecure wives looking the other way who are in non monogamous relationships often, women are the ones who instigate the practice.
Several studies by sex researchers in Germany and in the University of Wisconsin have shown that it is often women who become bored romantically after several years in a monogamous relationship.
Violet, a New York City higher education teacher,nike air max trainers, 49, would only speak to The Post under a pseudonym. (She says her friends know about her life style but some of her adult students might be shocked.)
"The way I describe it on my OKCupid profile is about the best I can do: I just didn't get the memo about not dating," she says.
Violet's love life is the stuff of telenovelas: She has been in a marriage with a man for 10 years. Her husband has a girlfriend of three years. Violet is also dating a man and a woman who date each other but,hogan outlet online, unlike Ezzo, she only sees each person in the couple separately, never together. And she goes on dates outside of her regular relationships.
In a twist, her husband's family knows about his girlfriend and the trio often go to family functions together.相关的主题文章：
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